Question:
Why homeschool when you can send your kids to public schools?
1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC
Why homeschool when you can send your kids to public schools?
48 answers:
Samantha B
2008-05-06 11:51:12 UTC
Children who are homeschooled usually are smarter, have better manners, can speak well and with clarity, set higher standards on themselves, become active in the world quicker, think for themselves and can be more loyal, respectful, considerate, compassionate and generous.



Anti-homeschoolers claim that homeschooled children are socially deprived. Well, it's not true! I am homeschooled (8th grade) and I have a dozen or so close friends and a dozen or two more friends of all ages, all across the US!



Yes, they are some stupid homeschoolers, no matter what the education is, some children can't or won't learn. And they are the 'jumper' homeschoolers. They are nice people, but they are very reclusive and secluded and protective of their children and this wrong.



And homeschooled children can be as active in extra-curricular activities as public schooled children. I was one of the top 100 geography students in TN for 2008, they were also at least two other homsechooled students at the state semi-finals and four or five more I didn't know if they were homeschooled or not. I participate in a homeschooled band, have done lacrosse, soccer, t-ball, figure skating, ballroom dancing lesson, piano lessons, flute lessons, tap dancing, tennis and art classes. At least that is all I can think of right now!



Homeschoolers are seriously misunderstood. If you haven't noticed, as this generation are getting out into the world, they are doing well for themselves. They are a multitude of homeschooled children across the globe who have their own businesses. My little brother is one of them.



Anyway, I've never been in a public school, so I can't describe what it would be like to go to one, but I do know that homeschoolers are outstripping public schooled children as they enter the world at the same time.
?
2008-05-03 08:33:03 UTC
We homeschool for so many reasons, i could write a book on it. Beyond special needs and academia, i chose to homeschool because children deserve the same dignity and respect that adults receive, and there is no possible way to achieve that within the system of public school. They are treated like cattle, herded together and moved through regardless of ability or desire.



At home, my children can choose who they are, what they want. We unschool so that they can develop their personalities at their own rate, without being shamed or encouraged to be something different. They can learn as much or as little as they want, they can play with friends, hang out with their elders, build a trebuchet, whenever they care to, not at the whim of the adults in their lives. Last week they dug a ditch in the backyard, just to watch the water flood out. Most kids are stuck on their butts for seven hours a day, listening about this or that, and never get the chance to associate it with real life. Or when the teacher does plan a 'field trip', the kids are so happy to escape the building that they learn nothing except how awful learning is.



I could go on, but we're busy learning and living.
Jennifer
2008-05-03 15:31:54 UTC
Are you a parent? Do you enjoy being with your kids? Do you want to make sure they have the best education possible? If you answer yes to these 3 questions, then you would be a good candidate to be a homeschool parent. If you answer no to ANY of these questions (which I assume you did) then you do not need to homeschool. It is not for you to understand. If you are not interested in it, you don't need to do it. BTW, every parent is a homeschool parent until they send their children off to public school. They teach them to use a fork and spoon, get dressed, brush their teeth, etc. Teaching them to read is not any different. I would never hire someone to teeth my kids how to clean up their room, and I don't need someone else to teeth my kids to add either.
Thrice Blessed
2008-05-02 22:37:14 UTC
America's public school system is horrible. On international tests of Math and Science we score near the bottom. Rather than concentrate on fixing that problem, the schools are more interested in being politically correct, not that all political correctness is wrong, but its not the job of the school system to teach kids what to think, its the job of the school system to teach them how to think.



So while schools are busy having multicultural days, days of silence, animal rights awareness days, and gender equality days, the kids are not learning how to read, write, and do math. While the schools are handing out condoms and setting up appointments for abortions, the kids are not learning about History. While the schools teach about every sort of diversity in earnest, they aren't noticing the kid who is beat up every day because his clothes are not the same as what everyone else is wearing.



So while all of that is going on in the Public School, (not to mention guns and drugs being smuggled in) my own kids are learning. Sometimes we stay home and work out of books, sometimes we go out and visit the library, a museum, a park or a beach.



My Kindergartner and my second grader are learning about the Middle Ages, and can probably tell you more about the Ottoman Empire than most of the kids in our public High School, they also learned about earth science this year, and can tell you the layers of the earth, the parts of volcano, the layers of the atmosphere, the various cloud types, and many other facts. We are now moving into astronomy and my kids will soon be learning about the 8 planets and the 3 known dwarf planets, (Pluto, Eris, and Ceres). They will also learn to find various constellations, and we will relate those studies to what we learned last year about the Ancient Greeks and Romans. Every year they have the same teacher, so they get continued review of what they have already learned.



My 9th grader also is doing very well, but is not looking forward to biology next year because she knows we will do at least 4 dissections and she doesn't really want to. She will also be reading many titles of classic literature next year, and will take an intensive writing course, along with World History, World Geography, Geometry, French, and Art. Her standardized test scores come back with post High School scores in all but 2 areas, and those 2 are on track, just not ahead.



So, why would I send my kids to public school when they are doing so well at home?



Why should public school be the default decision?



Shouldn't parents weigh all their options and choose the best education for their children? For some kids it might be public school that suits them best, for others private school is better, and for others homeschool is best. Why should everyone make the same choice?
2008-05-02 18:56:41 UTC
This is interesting because I could switch the question. Why send your kids to public school when you can homeschool?



There are so many more opportunities available homeschooling than possible in public school. There are places to go and people to meet that there just isn't time for when you are stuck in a classroom so much of the day.



There is more time to learn what you want, when you want. We can travel, absorb a wide variety of cultures and a more diverse population than in public school. No school can have the vast diversity that is in the rest of the world.



And we still can do some classroom work if we want, so there is nothing missing.



Maybe you can explain why you think parents send their kids to a public school, it makes no sense to me.



Thanks :D
HistoryMom
2008-05-02 22:46:32 UTC
Everyone's approach to homeschoo is different.......

1) Too much drama in the schools

2) Religion --some not all school for religious reasons and then 1/2 of those are NOT zealious about it

3) Medical or Special Needs

4) Family is constantly moving around



Everyone has their reasons, some people are on the up & up, some aren't. There are some who would say that parents who homeschool are whackjobs and while there are the REMOTE few who are, for the majority we are simply parents who care about our children's safety, mental/physical wellbeing and actual education.



I have been homeschooling my daughter now for what will soon be our 5th yr. Our reason.....Medical....my daughter suffers from ALL (Acute Lymphoblastic Lukemia), Asthma and Venom Anaphalaxia (allergic to venomous insects). We tried Public School and we tried Private School....the public wouldn't let her keep her inhaler in class with her and sent her outdoors WITHOUT her Epipen to which she got stung and ended up in the hospital on a ventilator......the Private school was pushing their form of religion that was just too intense for us......solution......HOMESCHOOL and we have been doing it ever since.



Now you have to understand that homeschooling is NOT for everyone and there are some people out there who really should NOT be their child(ren)'s teacher, but at the same time if you are bright enough to say to your child ' I DON'T know the answer, let's find out TOGETHER.' then you will do fine as your child(ren)'s teacher.

Here's the difference....................

You Know You're a Teacher (yes I'm a Jeff FoxWorthy Fan :p)

1) If your kitchen, bathroom and yard double as LAB areas

2) If you child finds a dead frog and says ' I wonder what's inside' and you grab a steaknife and tweezers

3) If your walls, refridgerator are covered with child art created with HOMEMADE paints and crayons

4) Your child sees a live lobster at the grocery store and launches into a DETAILED account of their anatomy with the closest STRANGER (don't laugh it HAS happened).



That is when you know that because you do these things on a regular basis you are cut out to be your child(ren)'s teacher.



But if Soaps and parties are more to your taste, and extra messes and so forth are not your cup of tea and you are more likely to send Johnny and Susie to watch TV or go outside just so they will 'shut up for 2 mins' then you might want to go with the whole Pulic/Private school gig.





Homeschool parents are not 'Super Mom' or 'Super Dad' and most of us live on ONE income, so we have to watch what we spend and do VERY carefully. But we care about the education our children need to survive.



For the record homeschool children can still be actively involved in things like Sports, Bands, Chorus, Scouts and Cheerleading and can go (if they so wish) to some of the top IVY league colleges.



Orginizations such as HomeSchool Defense League called the HSLDA help homeschoolers and their parents protect their rights and can be accessed at www.hslda.org.

Each state has their own rules as to who/how to homeschool, but it is LEGAL in ALL 50 States ( sorry I can't give my opinions about other countries) and it will be a shivering day in the Devil's house before it becomes illegal here.



I hope that answers some of your questions and thanks for keeping an open mind.
sandernmb
2008-05-02 18:05:21 UTC
The public schools in our area spend the entire year "teaching to the test" instead of inspiring children to learn about things.



The public schools in our area are run like "baby boot camp" and "elementary prison" instead of schools.



There are middle schoolers having oral $&# in the stairwells.



Guns and drugs and bullying and diseases are somehow an 'accepted reality' in public schools today.



These are NOT the public schools that I went to. I don't want my kids exposed to THAT kind of reality until they are emotionally mature enough, and have the moral fortitude to deal with, all of that.



Honestly, though, the people who have it the worst are the teachers. They are overworked, underpaid and snowed under by red tape and bureaucracy, test scores and book-keeping. The district administration wastes money, and the teachers' unions prevent truly awful teachers from being fired, which means that school districts are hemorrhaging money that could otherwise be going to support teachers with better classroom budgets.



I know some truly BRILLIANT teachers who are hanging on by their toenails in a system that has failed an entire generation of children. In another ten years, we will have beaten down those teachers so much that they have all fled to private schools.



It is a sad state.



But since I can't really do anything to FIX the situation, I keep my kids at home and give them an education that will serve them for a lifetime.



: ) Petra

ds 9

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Cindy W
2008-05-03 19:59:23 UTC
We prefer not to use the public schools as a free baby sitting service. We prefer NOT to institutionalize our children. We like being with our children 24/7 and we raise better children than school personnel do. We care about our children as a whole including their intellect, morality, spirituality and safety. This will never make sense to you until you become a parent yourself. If you are already a parent then you obviously could care less who is raising your child or what your child is learning. A parent is solely responsible for the outcome of their child.
Zui.x
2008-05-02 18:04:02 UTC
Im not a parent, nor am I homeschooled, but I want to be.



Sometimes it's not the parents choices. Sometimes the kids want to be. Maybe their children have an illness that prevents them from attending school often. Maybe the kids are being bullied. Or maybe the schools are just poor quality.



It's different for everyone
glurpy
2008-05-02 18:01:19 UTC
Why send your kids to public school when you can homeschool them?



Why have kids if someone else is going to spend more time with them than the parents do?



It makes no sense to me that someone should not understand why parents would want to be with their kids, would want to raise their kids, would want to educate their kids themselves.



For us, sending our kids to school makes no sense for our family. The inflexible academics, the social groupings, the hours, the ridiculous amount of homework the schools have here... Why send them to that when they can have an academic environment tailored to them, can participate in activities with various ages (a much more normal structure for humans), can have a more relaxing lifestyle, can avoid adopting some of the choice attitudes and beliefs that are prevalent in schools (like, you're just not cool unless you have an iPod or cell phone--even in gr. 6!). There are so many reasons for us to not send our kids. But above all, the primary reason is that we are their parents and we had them and want to raise them, not have somebody else (teacher plus same-age immature peers) do the bulk of it for 12 years.
Janis B
2008-05-03 04:17:24 UTC
We homeschool because we can create a curriculum that meets our son's needs, goals, talents, interests, and learning style. At least we try. (smile)



We learn only what we want to learn and by teaching at home, we can renew the love of learning that children have before they enter institutionalized class rooms.



I can give assignments to my son without worrying about 25 other students who may be more advanced or less advanced in a particular subject. It is a great time saver to be able to get the academic work done and have more time for fun after the school work.
Shaeleah
2008-05-03 13:32:15 UTC
Hello, I am home-schooled, and have been all of my life.

I think that one of the reasons it because you get to spend more time with your family, which is very important to some people, it could be because the parent was home-schooled, or had a very hard time in school and fear the same thing for their own children. I think a reason that I like home-schooling is because I get to spend that time with my family, I feel much closer with my family then my friends are with there families. I feel I know more about Life, I may not be as "book" smart as other people, however, I feel like I have learned so much about my self, and about real life, and that is going to help me more in life then books. It was harder when I was younger because I didn't know as much as my friends did, there are still many things I don't know that my friends know, however most of that is useless anyway. If a person is going to home-school, I think they really need to know what is it and how it works. I don't think people should just home-school for no reason. I think another good reason for home-schooling would be that public schools are always great, the teachers at public schools, I feel, are teaching to the test, and the test would be the CSAP, I don't feel public school teachers really love what they do. Home-school-er has teachers, they go to classes, or teachers houses with other children, and I feel these teachers love what they are doing. There are many reasons, more then I have said, if you have any other questions for a home-school-er, just Email.

hellogoodbye14@hotmail.com



Bye











I would just like to say to "Toonses", you have got to be one of the most idiotic people I have ever heard. You say children need social skills, yes; however how is not being aloud to talk in classes social skills? your just sitting there, and as for being prepared for life and what’s out there, I feel I am much more prepared for life then you are, you'll go to High school and have the same people everyday, and learn things that you probably won’t ever use, will I am out there meeting new people, learning LIFE SKILLS, and things a person really needs, learning about other peoples life, and how they had to live when they where young, learning things that I want to learn, and not learning to a test like you will be, then you will be out of high school and have nothing to do because your not with the same people anymore, your have to learn to make new friends, and a new life, and I will know how to do that.
ozboz48
2008-05-02 21:30:01 UTC
There are multiple reasons families choose homeschooling.

Superior academics.

More opportunities for real life socialization.

Protection of child from social, physical and/or sexual abuse at school.

Freedom to pursue child's interests and passions.

Ability to move through school material at child's own pace.

Ability to start college courses at a young age.

The desire to not have the child's mind controlled by a curriculum which changes with the whims of governmental education committees.

Keeping a child's natural love of learning intact.

Not wasting time on material which is taught solely for the purpose of passing mandated tests...ie, giving the child a good grounding in science, social studies and literature.

Tailoring the learning experience to each student's unique learning style and speed rather than a one-size-fits-all approach.

Those are a few of the many reasons.
Wyatt J
2008-05-04 18:10:08 UTC
tests show that homeschooled kids we'll be 10 times smarter than kids that go to public schools
karen i
2008-05-03 10:15:04 UTC
1, far far better education (homeschool kids blow doors on the standardized tests)

2. it's fun

3. better socialization

4. don''t' have to worry about bad influences

5. get to be with my cool kids

6. they helped me w/ home daycare

7. they are more balance

8 and on and on



It makes no sense to me to even consider a public school!
William
2008-05-02 17:28:06 UTC
Some kids are made fun at, some get in trouble, some need special education that public schools don't give you, some just feel like it, and lastly, have you noticed that most home schooled kids are very smart? That's because when they're home schooled, the parents have the chance to teach them extra little stuff, and they turn out to be very, very, very, smart.
?
2008-05-02 22:12:04 UTC
i home school becausee my nine year old started coming home talking about vibrators and condoms....and, he was getting bullied from teachers from the beginning...every year the same story...."he takes too long to do his work...he misses recess because he has to finish his work....he gets distracted easily blah blah blah" the fact is, since i have been home schooling him, it is obvious that he is a thinker and he wants to get it right vs. done right away and wrong...he is really smart and philosophical...he is also really active and requires at least four hours of physical play, some time doing tactile stuff (the school does not offer this), and more attention....he is also very social and we have him involved in a few things where he is learning skills from other adults in our community with other kids, but it is not high demand and still requires commitment on his part....he was also feeling really intimidated by the other kids and teachers leaving him depressed....
2008-05-02 17:28:21 UTC
Because public schools don't really teach you anything - they teach you the TEST -



Isn't it funny how the last 7 or 8 spelling bee champions were all homeschooled.



the argument against it is that they have no social skills -

I find that hard to believe, maybe its because they take things a bit more seriously - and as far as I am concerned we need more homeschooled kids - Maybe they will grow up and change this country for the better.
Amanda W.
2008-05-02 17:25:44 UTC
There are lots of benifits form gettting home-schooled!

Kids can usally concrate way more and do better in work when there're home-schooled becasue in schoool there's kids all around and distractions the child.

As a kid i always wanted to be home-schooled becasue then i wouldn't have to get up early in the morning to go to the school bus and my parents wouldn't have to waste gas since i lived far away form school.



The main reason was becasue i got teased alot becuase of the way i look and i thought that if i got home-schooled then it would just be the teacher and me. 1 on 1.



Also there're isn't as much peer presure ofcourse so it's alot safer, that way you don't have to worry about if your kids are going to get involved in drugs or not etc. So i think that's a VERY big plus.



And if some parents worry too much...that if there kid/s will be freindless but they can always make friends out of school so i encourage them not to worry too much about that.



All in All getting home-schooled is very very beifictal and best for a child but it does a cost a bit of too much money. :)



Hope that Helps



~~amanda~~

peace
answer faerie, V.T., A. M.
2008-05-02 21:15:51 UTC
Because I enjoy my child's company.

Because I want to preserve his love of and respect for learning.

Because publics schools standards are deplorable.

Because I want him to learn to think critically, not just pass tests.

Because he's an early reader and many early readers and advanced kids are given a hard time in school, and are not allowed to progress at their own pace.

Because of all the nonsense that goes on in schools: kids getting suspended for "fighting" when someone else jumps them, zero tolerance, no talking a lunch, no recess, no arts programs, etc..
long live our sacred America
2008-05-02 18:18:44 UTC
because most public schools are so bad (middle schools are the worst especial in the cities) that Homeschooling is the only option. (and some private schools are just as worse)
renee70466
2008-05-02 17:35:07 UTC
Why send them to a public school?

I home school because my daughter couldn't subtract at the halfway point through her second year of second grade, she was coming home with 4 hours of home work and was beat up three times on the bus and the school would do nothing to stop it!

I home school my son because they wanted a busy 4 yo on ADHD meds. He's not ADHD had him tested! They wouldn't give him speech therapy (the reason we enrolled him into the pre k program)

We continue because we feel that public schools indoctrinate children instead of educating them. If they would teach both sides of issues then it would be education. To teach evolution only is indoctrination. We also fell that socialization is not sticking 30 kids all the same age and economic status in a room. The only other time you are placed with people your age is in a nursing home. The difference is that by the time you are old enough for a nursing home you have hopefully learned how to socialize in the real world.



The funny thing is that why people send their kids to a public day care (I mean school) is a mystery to me! We tried it and realize it's not for us!
criertuck
2008-05-02 17:26:26 UTC
Every child learns at a different rate. Some kids need more 1:1 attention in order to learn best. With class sizes being so big it is hard to get the teachers help unless you are really struggling , and then it is often too late to keep caught up.
2008-05-02 17:51:45 UTC
Homeschooling is way better than public school , from someone who has had experience with both.
Robert B
2008-05-02 17:28:20 UTC
Two possible reasons (among several):



1) You're a religious zealot of some variety, and don't want your child exposed to outside world until you've had a chance to thoroughly indoctrinate them.



2) You recognize the fact that public schools are (by and large) horrible. They provide your child with a homogenized education that don't allow your kid to learn at their own pace, or study areas of particular interest. As a result, many home-schooled children are often several grade levels ahead of their peers attending public school.



If I had kids (and I'm not planning on it), I definitely take the home-schooling approach.



Edit:



As for the "social" issue, school is only one way for kids to get social contact, and not necessarily the best way. There are also team sports, neighborhood children, church groups and other clubs and activities such as the Girl Scouts.



In your typical school, throughout much of the school day, kids aren't even allowed to talk. How is that good for a child's social development?



Second edit: Teaching evolution is not indoctrination. It's teaching science. There is no empirical evidence or experimental support for competing hypotheses (such as Biblical creationism or Intelligent Design), whereas the theory of evolution as a mountain of evidence backing it, many of its predictions have been borne out, and it has yet to be falsified. It is a cornerstone theory of biology. Not teaching it would be like failing to teach students about gravity in physics. As Biblical creationism and Intelligent Design are not legitimate scientific theories, they are inappropriate for science class. They might be appropriate for a world religions class, however, if presented carefully and in the right context.



This is part of what I was referring to when I mentioned religious zealotry as a possible motive for homeschooling, and is reason I'm somewhat dubious towards homeschooling, despite the sorry state of our public schools. If you would hobble your child's education in the sciences because your sectarian religious beliefs have biased you against major scientific theories which have been effectively proven, you are doing your child a gross disservice.
2008-05-02 17:27:09 UTC
Because there are many problems in the public schools and parents who choose to homeschool are voting against those things.



Kids are mean.

Kids aren't being taught to think

Kids aren't learning, they are learning to take tests.

Teachers don't care.

Children are taught a different morality.

etc.
2008-05-02 17:26:40 UTC
.... my thought is that public schools are just getting way out of hand with all this homework and projects and stuff, and homeschools are a lot smaller so the teacher can focus more on each student so like Lucy needs to work on her equation solving or Billy needs to read each night or something like that......
?
2008-05-02 17:31:00 UTC
Because of the culture of many public schools which is contrary to what parents desire for their children, they choose to educate their children at home.



Home schooling is way better if the parents are educated, resourceful, and persistent.
Pain Is All I Know
2008-05-02 17:26:20 UTC
Because most of them feel that the public school system has failed, and they feel that their child can get a better education being homeschooled.



Or many homeschool them because of health problems, or their kids are having problems at school....



=)
*[[♥ Edward Cullen is love ♥]]*
2008-05-02 17:28:17 UTC
my friend and her brother is home schooled



both their parentes own their own busniesess and are very stabled finachly



they go away alot so its more convient for them to not have to deal with all the absents and everything, and its also less distracting



and that means the kids AND THE PARENTS can wake up later



and they've been to very cool field trips with some otther homeschooled kids....!!
Busy Lady 2010
2008-05-02 17:27:34 UTC
My, my, the school is very unprotected.

Many do this to help keep kids off drugs.

Parents don't watch their kids and some

even carry guns to school.
protoham
2008-05-02 17:26:47 UTC
Because Public School is a waste of time.
2008-05-02 17:26:03 UTC
homeschool the kid will stay out of trouble, focus more, get more attention . at public, big classes and less attention.
?
2008-05-02 17:46:10 UTC
schools have been found to have sexual molestors not kidding i see it on the news like once a week you should consider
TMQ
2008-05-02 17:26:29 UTC
Because a bag of hammers could graduate high school, and some parents want their kids to be smarter than a bag of hammers.
?
2008-05-02 17:26:42 UTC
Sometimes it is for religious reasons. Most public schools do not teach it.



Sometimes because the parents work makes them relocate a lot. Easier to teach them instead of pulling them in and out of school.
BermieGrl1995
2008-05-02 19:00:25 UTC
HOME SCHOOL YOU ARE CLOSER TO YOUR KIDS AND CAN HELP THEM WHEN THEY NEED IT, THERE IS ALSO ALOT MORE FREE TIME FOR HOME SCHOOLED KIDS AND ALOT OF EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES LIKE THE YMCA OFFERS PE FOR HOME SCHOOLED KIDS AND SPORTS TOO
Weirdo!!(:
2008-05-02 17:26:02 UTC
I used to be home schooled because i was bullied so bad i guess thats one reason.
...
2008-05-02 17:26:52 UTC
im a student school sucks i wud prefer homeschool a million times more dan public school deres so much drama and ppl talk about u and u get in trouble teachers or so not happy wit dere jobs which if dey dont like wat dey r doin den y wud we and gettin up early is just bull so yea
R H
2008-05-02 17:26:12 UTC
Because some schools are deteriorating to the point where there is bad association, illmannered undisciplined children and it can be dangerous. Dont put them down, some are just trying to survive. thanks for asking.
Secre25
2008-05-02 17:28:49 UTC
Well the education in public schools is lacking and some parents feel they can do a better job. Some parents want to shelter their children from the world and all that is bad, i.e. how cruel kids can be. There is a hilarious South Park episode that deals with this issue. The main point is that yes, public schools are lacking in education, but children need to develop social skills. They should not be so sheltered from the world that when they get out on their own they go crazy and act out. Parents' job is to prepare their child for the world so that they are prepared when they get out there. Some parents, unfortunately, just don't realize this
Michael
2008-05-02 17:26:49 UTC
becouse public schools are a joke. you dont really learn anyting usefull.
2008-05-02 17:27:58 UTC
some parents dont want there kids to learn the things that we learn there.... some of the language that is used is very bad.. and some just dont like public schools... they just dont want there kids to learn some of the things that they do..
Monkey bro
2008-05-02 17:27:32 UTC
get a better eduaction
Roped
2008-05-02 17:25:33 UTC
Why let your children get a poor education when a better one can be provided at home?
i_come_from_under_the_hill
2008-05-02 18:35:22 UTC
Well we're doing it because the schools were not challenging me or letting me work at my level. I was wasting my tie there, sleeping through classes and still getting A's, watching kids CHEAT on open book tests, and only actually learning when I was at home sick. Here's a bit of information about what homeschooling is and what it's like that might shead some light on why parents and students tend to prefer it.



It is different for every family that does it, and often even for every individual child. As stated above, some people do online school which means you have teachers you corespond with over the internet. The online school sends you your materials and you complete the work and get a grade, just like regular school, only done on the computer from home or the library or the road if you travel a lot.



Some people homeschool through a private school or school of corespondance that sends them their books and materials for assignments, labs, projects, etc through the mail. With this type of home schooling, you usually send a report to the base school at set intervals.



Some people attend charter schools that let them go in to school once or twice a week, collect work, turn in work, and get help if they need it, though this isn't really what most consider to be homeschooling. Neither is online school to some people.



Some people take full responsibility for their own/their child's education by doing more traditional homeschooling. The parents and children choose their own curriculumk, text books, work books, lab equipment, videos, software, and any other materials they wish to use. They also choose their own subjects based on the child's individual interests and goals, for example, if the child wishes to go on to university, they will study the important core subjects that universities look for on transcripts as well as a variety of electives based on individual interests, needs, and goals. I personally am interested in robotics, animation, creative writing, and music, so this year I've been studying Programming and Robotics with various books and robotics/electronics kits for labs, 3D Animation with computer software, and creative writing with a textbook and books frokm the library. I also takek music lessons in the community and I am a member of a band. In this form of homeschooling, the state may require that you take a yearly standardized test to show that you are performing at or above grade level. In the states that are a bit more strict about homeschooling, your parents may need to send in a quarterly report, just like a report card in a way. Your parents may also give you tests at home if you all agree that this is what will be best for you, but it isn't required.You may also get grades like you do in school, or you may be on a Pass/Fail system, or you may have a totally unique grading system, or no grades at all. I take tests, but not for grades. When I take a test in a subject it is only to determine how far along I've come in that subject. The "grade" is never final because I homeschool to learn, not to just get by with a passing grade. If, for example, I took a test on a chapter I did in Algebra and I didn't do well on a few questions, instead of just going on to the next chapter, I go back and review the stuff I didn't get right on the test and then take the test again before moving on. For me, all tests are for is to tell me when I can move on to something more challenging. For me, and many others, tests aren't always in the same format as they are in public school. Sometimes in certain subjects, I'm tested by being given an extensive project or presentation to do to show my understanding of the topic cover, or asked to write a paper on it, or give a mock lesson on it as if I were the teacher. You know you truly understand something when you can accurately and confidently teach it to someone else. Often my mother, adult friends, or friends closer to my age who are in college or who have already mastered te subject will act as audience durring presentations or re-teaching activities, checking me if I don't seem to understand something. I only do this for certain subjects and topics though.



Homeschoolers sometimes do a lot of the things you may do in public school, but sometimes they do more as well. Many homeschoolers do a lot of hands-on activities like labs in science. This year, I am taking Chemistry, and I have all the same lab equipment you would use in a public high school chemistry class, just on a smaller scale, and with lab instructions specific to homeschooling (not requiring large groups of students, or very-hard-to-obtain chemicals). It was the same in Biology and in Physical Science. I have homeschooled friends who take thier science classes in a co-op group (kind of a homeschool class where parents and community volunteers act as teachers for each subject), and still other homeschool friends who take all of their highschool science classes (and some other classes) at the local community college as duel-enrollment students (just like regular highschool duel enrollment).



Homeschoolers don't miss out on the social aspects of school either. They certainly do not spend all of their time inside the house. Homeschoolers spend a lot of their time is spent out in the community, learning and experiencing life in the real world instead of in a house or in a classroom alone. Many homeschoolers take classes offered in the community such as art classes at an art studio or museum, musical instrument or voice lessons as well as band or chorus classes for homeschoolers at local music stores or schools, fencing lessons, swimming lessons, horseback riding lessons, classes and programs offered through local childrens museums, science museums, or history museums, classes or programs offered through the library, community/youth center, YMCA, or other Parks and Rec programs, dance class, and so on. Naturally, these are great opportnities for homeschoolers to interact with others of all ages, homeschoolers and public schoolers alike. There are also clubs outside of the regular public schools such as riding clubs, clubs offered through libraries and community centers, drama clubs at local theaters, boy scouts, girl scouts, Boys and Girls Clubs, youth group for those who are into the church scene, OM, academic teams, community sports, individual sports like martial arts, tennis, fencing, swimming, etc, and much much more. Many cities or counties also have homeschool organizations or co-ops where, as stated above, homeschoolers can take classes with other homeschoolers as well as go on frequent feild trips (though any homeschool parent or group of parents can arrange a feild trip when they want to), join clubs sponsored by the group (as many as can be thought of and started by the members), work on a yearbook or newspaper staff, attend dances or holiday parties (most groups have something along the lines of a Not-Back-To-School party each fall where the homeschoolers may go to a theme park or some other sort of outing) volunteer service projects, prom and graduation ceremonies for older students, outings on weekends, park days where younger kids meet up to spend an afternoon playing and pic-nicking in the park (uwsually weekly or monthly) and so on. Some even participate in private school sports competitions as well as regional and state science fairs and spelling/geography bee. There is no lack of social interaction.



The last form of homeschooling I can think of is unschooling. In this kind of home education, there is no structured school day, no tests (unless the child wants them), no grades. All of the learning and "school work" is directed by the child. This is usually best when started at an early age so that the child's natural desire to learn remains in tact and the child doesn't just become lazy or unmotivated. I am what I like to call a homeschool/unschooler because my schooling is all self-directed, but I still choose to do the book work and testing along with the creative hands-on stuff because I feel it is in my own, individual best interest.



I hope this answers your questions
S&NFervor4Ever
2008-05-02 17:30:12 UTC
I HAVE to right now b/cuz we're out of the country, but the second we get home his butt is back in class!!..lol

Personally I think school is great for learning social skills as well as getting a much better education from an actual teacher rather than me! I try, but I KNOW I am not doing a great job.. satisfactory, I'd say.. but, yes I agree with you unless the kids maybe get teased too much and it traumatizes them.. in that case i would HS, and get them in activities for the socialization part..

good question.



oh, and our school system back home was excellent.
2008-05-02 17:25:13 UTC
Soem kids cant stay out of trouble, and some get made fun of


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