I'm the eldest of four chilldren. We live in the Philippines (we are Filipinos) and my parents homeschooled us. I am now a junior in college taking a BS in nursing. My sister is now in the States and is vying for honors. My two youngest siblings are still currently being homeschooled.
One of the misconceptions of non - homeschoolers is that homeschooled kids miss out on the social aspect of growing up. Quite the contrary! More often than not, homeschoolers are actually well rounded in their activities.
In my family, we went to church, were members at a gym, went to parties, etc. The people that come to see our parents (or the people our parents go to see) are introduced to us too and we are often included in their conversations and are addressed as grown ups - something that adds to our "social life". Obviously, we weren't as exposed to our peers as a traditionally schooled child would be, but we view that as an advantage. It's "good friends or no" and "wise elders versus foolish peers". We had many activities at home. We pretended we were knights and made complete maps and stories of our adventures! To this day I could remember severel of the "aliases" and pretend names I made up years ago,=)
Thanks to our parents' decision to homeschool, we were spared from the many foolish things that unsupervised youngsters get into. To this day we have kept our virginity and have never tasted a cigarette.
When I entered college, I had a sense of who I was - I had an identity, I did not feel inferior or mediocre. Oh no! In fact, my classmates looked up to me and were awed that I knew so much. We were avid readers back home and I had lots of stock knowledge.
So, to round things up, my answer is "no". I do not believe that I missed out by not being with other kids.
One of the best parts is establishing your goals as a family and working toward it together as a family. Another best for me is growing up with my parents. It's like we learned things together. My mom would teach us 5 chapters of algebra each day and she would learn right along with us! I love my parents! They give us the freedom to do what we want because they trust us - they know that we will make right choices because they brought us up well. My classmates would comment on how they wish they had a relationship with their dads as I have with mine. When I come home from school my dad gives me a kiss; when he leaves, he kisses each member of the family on the forehead.
The negative side would be homeschooling for the wrong reasons. When you think of homeschooling, you have to think loooong term. It's not just 10 months of every year, it's not 8 hours a day, it's a 24/7 commitment. Homeschooling is not just the academics, it's everything - from waking up in the morning to going to bed at night. Preparing breakfast, washing the lunch dishes, making the beds, bathing the dog, and other daily tasks and chores is part of it too! When you homeschool, you have the privilege of raising your own kids! Really raising them, not just providing for them.
Being homeschooled is the best part of being homeschooled. (^^,)
I'm sorry this was so long and I kind of got side-tracked at some points, it's just that I can't begin to describe how wonderful being homeschooled was for me. If I could have it all over again, I wouldn't have it any other way - except maybe add Latin lessons to our syllabus. (^^,)